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Trust! It’s important in all areas of someone’s life.  This stands true in the professional field too and I don’t mean just for doctors, lawyers and counselors.  Client-customers want to know that if they are speaking with someone for a consultation that their information is kept between them and the business they
are working with. 

When I first began my work online, there were times when I would be on a phone or email consult where I could sense a bit of resistance.  Later, I learned that a potential client I was speaking with was not clear what was costing them for services and what wasn’t.  That is when I became aware and found the importance of sharing upfront right away that I never billed anyone without them being made aware upfront that there would be a cost if they wanted a service from me.  If they weren’t told of a cost, then my work with them was considered part of a FREE consultation. This was important as I have many services I charge for but also
provide many FREE during consulting with new clients. 

My clients also wanted to know that they could feel safe talking with me and what they shared wasn’t going to be something shared with many others and a potential business product, service or plan was going to be breeched.   I’ve learned this first-hand.  There is nothing more disappointing than paying for a service and sending what you believe to be a confidential discussion with someone you are paying for services from and learn the next day that much of your ideas were shared publicly.  At that moment that this happened to me, my trust with that person was immediately broken.  I respected their talents but knew I could no longer disclose business opportunities regarding future plans for my company with them.  It was such a letdown in my eyes. 

When working in the professional field, whether online or in the local community, remember whatever your business field is in to take the following into consideration regarding your client-customer and the confidentiality between the two of you.

1.      A client-customer is a client-customer.  Be ethical and respectful toward them.  They want to trust you.  Prove to them that  they can.

2.      If it is your intent to share because you see it as being beneficial to the client, be darn sure that you are respectful enough to ask.  Some things are welcomed!  Some things should always be kept private.  For example, part of my company is for promotional purposes.  I share with those I work with upfront that I often throw out FREE promotional as time permits for those I work with and support. At that time, I also share if this is something you don’t want to happen  or want to be made aware of each individual time to please let me know  then.  By sharing that, I have informed the client-customer that their service or product will be “Promoted” but that is where I stop with exposure to them. Verbal discussion and business development plans stay between the two of us.  That is a confidential discussion until it is time to disclose if they desire.

3.      Confidentiality creates trust between the two of you.  Build on it.  They will only respect you more and you can bet that they are likely to return for more services later on.

4.      Private versus Public Post Discussions should be done with caution.  What I mean by this is in the online business world, there are many social media websites, such as Twitter, Facebook, Google+, etc. 
Often times, people public comment on others pages and websites for that matter.  When doing so, be cautious and respectful regarding what is mentioned in regards to working together.  Someone may not want others to know that they are obtaining specific services from you. You should always leave that up to the client-customer to open that up  publically.  For example, I often post on clients websites and pages. 
However, I don’t say on that person’s site that I am their professional coach.  They do at times and share
a compliment with me, which is so kind and flattering, but that is their decision to do so and never expected from me. 

If you want to build a stronger client base, you have to respect their privacy.  I have been seeing too many times recently where the online world does not have a clear understanding of client privacy.  Be ethical in your work.  Have boundaries and remember  to treat the client as if you were the business client yourself, maintain their  confidentiality!  Best of luck with your business and please remember that if you have any questions pertaining to your business, you can always contact me.  I will be happy to answer any questions for you or give you a referral to a professional who can. 

Have a fantastic week and as always, MAKE LIFE HAPPEN! 

~Irish~

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Comments

maria
12/05/2012 1:39am

great and informative post, irish!! i've been thinking about you and hoping that all is well in your neck of the woods. i hope that you and your family had a beautiful thanksgiving and are already enjoying the new month *which if flying by way fast*
sending lots of love and wishing you a wonderful wednesday!
xoxox
maria

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12/06/2012 9:35pm

Hi Maria,

I am glad you liked the post and as always I have been thinking of you and how that awesome baby is coming along waiting to meet everyone in this world. So many are waiting. She is gong to be a princess ya know. We did have a great holiday and I hope you are enjoying every single day of this season. Sending love back at ya. Hugs my dear. And I just know Baby Gap has their eye on you...lol ; D

Irish

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12/06/2012 11:58am

Trust is so important! With clients I assume everything is private unless otherwise stated. I have on occasion asked if I could share a situation that might help others but ideas are like giving birth to babies. We put so much into our creative process, sacrifices, tender quiet moments of love sandwiched between small chunks of ourselves, time spent. We watch these ideas grow and take shape. It has a heartbeat to us because it's our own. When that trust is broken, it's heartbreaking. I am very sorry that you had that experiance but I thank you for reminding us not to get lost in the shuffle- Stay true to what you know is right as you serve your clients. You have been such an inspiration and point of guidance for me. I am participating in the giveaway but I would have left you a novel anyway. ;) Grateful for the friendship, guiance and comfort of knowing that I have an amazing coach by my side. xo

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12/06/2012 9:40pm

Hi Meg,

You always bring a smile to my face..a huge one. It's like a balloon getting blowed up..haha I agree with you that its important to ask. I think its just realistic to have boundaries and appreciate those who reach out to us. You have great insite in your thoughts and comment here. Thanks for adding so much to this discussion. = )

Your compliments are so touching and I want you to know just how much you inspire me. Your words move mountains. And by the way....coach? We are co-coaches, remember...haha Go girl....thanks for being my team mate along the way. ; )

Irish

Irish

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12/06/2012 1:51pm

This was a very informative and well-written article. It is so important to ask questions and understand the boundaries before disclosing information. Sometimes name-dropping on social media can backfire and cause the loss of a valued customer or client if you're not careful!

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12/06/2012 9:42pm

Hi Shawn,

I'm glad you have added to this discussion...its an important one. You are so right, if we can't trust the person we are coming to for service, its the quickest way to have someone turn away. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and input. I appreciate all of this dialogue from everyone.

Irish

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